No Money No Honey

With the level of poverty and suffering in this part of the world, I can't blame any girl that cannot love a broke guy.
Loving a guy because of his money does not make a girl a gold digger, so long as she is not over doing it for money, my sister, your sister or  our girls/women need guys that will be giving them upkeep money, at least money for their hair, cream, clothes and phone. Most of the girls we blame for not loving us because we are broke were looking good if not better before we met them, but once they accept us we try to cut down the list of their friends, ask frequent jealous questions like; where did you go after church service? who was that guy i saw you with last night? who bought this phone for you? And so many unnecessary questions a broke guy shouldn't ask. I am not saying that there should be no love for broke guys, but there are certain things you need to do for her even if you are broke.


Things You Need To Do For Her


I think you should see it as something necessary to take her out at least once or twice in a month, it is better to tell her sweet and funny stories that will make her almost crack her ribs even if they are lies, instead of boring her with your sorry stories of joblessness, frequent jealous questions like; "what stopped you from picking my calls last night? Who is the owner of this strange number? All of these cannot keep a girl for you even in your village. I am not ignorant of the facts that men especially African men always want to be in control whenever in a relationship, i think this attitude was very effective in the past, i mean for a man to be in total control  without having money.  Even in those days when women were not materialistic you as a man needed to be a good farmer at least to impress your babe and to put food on her table when you gets married to her.
Therefore doing things for a girl you claim you love is not something new, it is as old as human history, if not for anything at least for the love you claim you have for her and the love and respect you will get in return.


Wish For Others What You Yourself


With all honesty and sincerity would you wish for your sisters a broke man? If the the answer is no, then why should you curse a girl that is running away from you because you are broke? I mean why are you wishing her bad because she turned down your request? Remember the saying that says "when one door closes another one opens" if a girl rejected you because you don't have money, I advice you to put yourself together and strategize to make money in other to avoid being turned down or dumped by another girl. Remember the beautiful ones are not yet born.
The earlier you get yourself prepared for them financially the better for you.
Let me conclude by saying that being rejected  by a girl should not in anyway mar you but should rather make you for future encounter.