It is said that all that glitter are not gold but all gold do, the same thing exists in the world of women. In their world not everything under skirts and have feminine features are real woman but all real women have the features plus what the less women lack.
What's your definition of a "Real Woman"? Are you one of those that defines a real woman by her appearance (a tall looking girl that makes her hair and nails and also dresses up in a colorful attire) or are you one of those men that think real women are those girls who lustfully wine and dine with them,that is girls that sleep around with different men all in the name of making ends meet, maybe you are the type that have mistaken real women for those materialistic fair weather friends who never subscribed to the idea of endurance and steadfastness.
Friends if you fall into any of the above categories then you know little or nothing about real woman. Therefore you need to learn more about real women, but before that lets look at how other people have described a real woman.
Some say a real woman is a chef in the kitchen, a therapist during hard times and a coach when her man is off his game. These implies that, no matter how wealthy a real woman is, she doesn't shift the responsibility of cooking for her man to her housemaid, even if she does is on few occasions. The above descriptions of a real woman also means that a woman should comfort her man during hard times, providing the necessary advice to serve as a fuel to forge ahead with a difficulty.
A real woman does not look at what her man has or what he doesn't have today, she looks at the prospect of her man having in abundance in the nearest future what's he doesn't have today.
A real woman to me is not a fair weather friend, she is a friend that never let go of her man no matter the weather cold or hot, she is a friend that holds her men's hands come rain come shine.
A real woman does not see a man's problems as dysfunctional and something that Mars, she sees a man's problems as functional and something that makes.
A real woman is not adulterous, a real woman is a paragon of contentment and steadfastness, she does not want attention, she prefers respect.
A real woman really doesn't want much from a man, she wants to share in her man's pleasant experience and memories. This what a real woman is to me.
An Advice To All The Real Men
If you are one of the real men out there, I urge you to look for a real woman if you want to get married, because the making and braking of home or family to a large extent have everything to do with the type of woman a real man has as a wife, remember the first agent of socialization is the family, in the process of socializing the child the mother of the family especially in most African societies shoulder's the majority of the responsibilities. Hence it is very important to have a real woman so that our children will have good morals inculcated into them, which is very important for a healthy society.
Facial beauty sometimes necessarily not supposed to be prioritized on the list of what we want in a woman.
Going back to the good old days of our parents and grandparents, when real women were not judged by the sizes of their hips and the attractiveness of their curves, those good old days when real women were also not judged by their facial beauty, but were judged by their cool headedness, contentment, steadfastness or better still, when women were judged by the content of their characters. These made possible little or no divorce cases in those good old days.
Happy Search.
What's your definition of a "Real Woman"? Are you one of those that defines a real woman by her appearance (a tall looking girl that makes her hair and nails and also dresses up in a colorful attire) or are you one of those men that think real women are those girls who lustfully wine and dine with them,that is girls that sleep around with different men all in the name of making ends meet, maybe you are the type that have mistaken real women for those materialistic fair weather friends who never subscribed to the idea of endurance and steadfastness.
Friends if you fall into any of the above categories then you know little or nothing about real woman. Therefore you need to learn more about real women, but before that lets look at how other people have described a real woman.
Some say a real woman is a chef in the kitchen, a therapist during hard times and a coach when her man is off his game. These implies that, no matter how wealthy a real woman is, she doesn't shift the responsibility of cooking for her man to her housemaid, even if she does is on few occasions. The above descriptions of a real woman also means that a woman should comfort her man during hard times, providing the necessary advice to serve as a fuel to forge ahead with a difficulty.
A real woman does not look at what her man has or what he doesn't have today, she looks at the prospect of her man having in abundance in the nearest future what's he doesn't have today.
A real woman to me is not a fair weather friend, she is a friend that never let go of her man no matter the weather cold or hot, she is a friend that holds her men's hands come rain come shine.
A real woman does not see a man's problems as dysfunctional and something that Mars, she sees a man's problems as functional and something that makes.
A real woman is not adulterous, a real woman is a paragon of contentment and steadfastness, she does not want attention, she prefers respect.
A real woman really doesn't want much from a man, she wants to share in her man's pleasant experience and memories. This what a real woman is to me.
An Advice To All The Real Men
If you are one of the real men out there, I urge you to look for a real woman if you want to get married, because the making and braking of home or family to a large extent have everything to do with the type of woman a real man has as a wife, remember the first agent of socialization is the family, in the process of socializing the child the mother of the family especially in most African societies shoulder's the majority of the responsibilities. Hence it is very important to have a real woman so that our children will have good morals inculcated into them, which is very important for a healthy society.
Facial beauty sometimes necessarily not supposed to be prioritized on the list of what we want in a woman.
Going back to the good old days of our parents and grandparents, when real women were not judged by the sizes of their hips and the attractiveness of their curves, those good old days when real women were also not judged by their facial beauty, but were judged by their cool headedness, contentment, steadfastness or better still, when women were judged by the content of their characters. These made possible little or no divorce cases in those good old days.
Happy Search.
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